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		<title>How To Find Your True Life Purpose (And Make It Pay)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 16:24:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Seamus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Seamus Anthony


So you&#8217;ve downloaded our free eBook, Curly&#8217;s Law, about the need to identify your One Thing, your True Life Purpose &#8211; but did you actually read it?

And if you did read it &#8211; have you managed to actually identify your One Thing?

It’s not always easy is it?

I gave my method for figuring out [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><em>By Seamus Anthony</em></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/kirtaph/2917364521/"><img class="alignleft" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3107/2917364521_3e01803cfb.jpg?v=0" alt="" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="243" height="321" /></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">So you&#8217;ve downloaded our free eBook, <a href="http://curlyslaw.com">Curly&#8217;s Law</a>, about the need to identify your One Thing, your True Life Purpose &#8211; but did you actually read it?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">And if you did read it &#8211; have you managed to actually identify your One Thing?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It’s not always easy is it?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I gave my method for figuring out my One Thing in the book, but that was just one way.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I don&#8217;t really know what other ways there are, or at least I didn&#8217;t until I read Brian Kim’s excellent <a href="http://rebelzen.javacss.hop.clickbank.net/">&#8220;<span>How To Finally Find What You Love to Do AND Get Paid For Doing It!”</span></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong> </strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong>The Trouble with the “Do What You Love” Theory </strong></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">When it comes to careers, the clichéd advice is to “do what you love” if you want to succeed BUT what do you do if you don’t know what you love?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">And hang on a second – don’t you know plenty of artists, writers, healers, musicians and wannabe-entrepreneurs who know very well what they love to do but just can’t seem to make it pay?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Well, if that’s you – relax. Brian’s </span><a href="http://rebelzen.javacss.hop.clickbank.net/">excellent little eBook</a> (with the very long title) is a Godsend for those who are undecided as to what their true purpose is or who haven’t got a clue how to make their passion pay-up some cold hard cash.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong>4 Reasons I Highly Recommend this Book</strong></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I don’t know Brian Kim personally, but I have been twice now impressed with his work (read about <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/12/the-hidden-secret-in-think-and-grow-rich/">the other time his writing blew my mind here</a>). The reasons I so heartily recommend <a href="http://rebelzen.javacss.hop.clickbank.net/">“How to Find What You Love To Do AND Get Paid For Doing It”</a> are:</p>
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<li class="MsoNormal">There’s      no hippy-drippy nonsense; no “open your mind to the Universe and let the      love flow in” crap. In case you haven’t woken up and smelled the coffee      yet, all that Law of Attraction baloney doesn’t work – not on its own      anyway. You can sit around and wish for success all you like, but if you      do, all you&#8217;re really doing is settling for a life of mediocrity. Instead      you need concrete, practical advice about how to get off your butt and      make it happen already. This book provides just that.</li>
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<li class="MsoNormal">It’s      a very structured book, a practical workbook that gets you to work it out      over a period of time. Brian will have you delve deeper and deeper into      your own nature until you find your True Purpose inside of you, just      sitting there like a brilliant diamond waiting all this time for you to      discover it.</li>
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<li class="MsoNormal">It’s      specific – you’ll learn “What” and then “How”. First you find ‘what’ it is      you truly should be doing with your life – your calling. Once you know      what this is (and you will) then you move on to ‘how’ to make it pay. If      you know you can’t be happy while you’re working a dreary, dead-end day      job that doesn’t leave you with enough energy to pursue your dreams, then take      my advice – buy this book now and get moving. Life is short! Stop wasting      time!</li>
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<li class="MsoNormal">There’s      no fluff. Coming in at 52 pages, this book gets straight to the point and      will have you up and at ‘em in no time. In fact Brian says that the book      was originally over 200 pages long but he boiled it down to the bare      essentials so as not to overwhelm you with too much superfluous      information and padding. If only more authors would do this! I don’t know      about you but I am a busy man and I like to just get in, get the information      I need, and then get on with it.</li>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong>Who Else is Ready To Get On With Fulfilling Their True Life Purpose?</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong> </strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>If you’re happy in your work or have figured out what your life’s passion is – and how to make it pay so that you don’t need no stinkin’ day job, then <strong>don’t buy this book</strong>. It’s not for those who are content with their station in life and feel they have no more learning to do, no more adventures to go on.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>But if that isn’t you then you need to find out what your One Thing is <em>now</em> and how to go for it and <em>succeed</em>. What are your other options? Keep working for the man forever? </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Consider these pertinent questions from <a href="http://rebelzen.javacss.hop.clickbank.net/">Brian’s website</a>:</span></p>
<p><em>Why sacrifice almost half of your day (if you include commuting) 5 days a week just to enjoy your nights and weekends? </em></p>
<p>Why sacrifice the best time period of your life so you can enjoy your golden years?</p>
<p><em>Why put yourself through all this pain and misery for the majority of your adult life? </em></p>
<p>When did people lie down and accept drudgery, boredom and dissatisfaction as a fact of life?</p>
<p><strong>It doesn’t make any sense. </strong></p>
<p><span>As I said at the beginning of this article, I already know my true life purpose – and I am making it pay already – but reading this book made me feel even more resolute to move on up to the next level and “go for gold” as the cliché goes. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Now &#8211; I paid 25 bucks for <a href="http://rebelzen.javacss.hop.clickbank.net/">&#8220;How to Find What You Love To Do&#8230;&#8221;</a>, but for a short time Brian has reduced the price to about $19 so click through now to check it out and ask yourself this – if you spend $19 on a book that finally brings you the success you have craved all your life – then isn’t that worth it? </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>I reckon it is, so hop to it and <a href="http://rebelzen.javacss.hop.clickbank.net/">Click Here Now </a>to find out more about the book. </span></p>
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		<title>How to Be Amazingly Original and Blow People&#8217;s Puny Minds</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 09:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Seamus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Seamus Anthony

Do you find yourself confused as to what your main direction in life is? Do you find yourself exploring This and then That and then berating yourself because you reckon you should have spent that time working on One Major Purpose instead of allowing yourself to get distracted?
Well, if so, RELAX!
Maybe you aren&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>By <a href="http://seamusanthony.com">Seamus Anthony</a><br />
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<p>Do you find yourself confused as to what your main direction in life is? Do you find yourself exploring This and then That and then berating yourself because you reckon you should have spent that time working on <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/08/curlys-law-how-the-mega-successful-use-this-rule-to-achieve-greatness-and-how-you-can-too/">One Major Purpose </a>instead of allowing yourself to get distracted?</p>
<p>Well, if so, RELAX!</p>
<p>Maybe you aren&#8217;t wasting time at all!</p>
<p>Maybe &#8211; just maybe &#8211; you are in the process of creating something amazing and highly original by combining different concepts and fields into One New Thing &#8211; a new category even!</p>
<p><strong>READ</strong></p>
<p>Can&#8217;t see how this applies to you and your disparate interests? Well, then maybe you need to explore this concept a bit more. Some good books to read are &#8220;Purple Cow&#8221; by Seth Godin, &#8220;Blue Ocean Strategy&#8221; by W. Kim and R. Mauborgne and &#8220;The Medici Effect&#8221; by Frans Johansson. All great books about the importance and methods of creating extraordinarily original offerings.</p>
<p><strong>DRAW</strong></p>
<p>Another awesome method of seeing where the connections lie is mind-mapping. If you are such a tech-head that you need to, you can find software to help with this, but personally I prefer a pen and the back of an envelope &#8211; this way I just bang out the ideas in my head, explore the connections, and move on to doing some real work. I don&#8217;t recommend spending hours fluffing about with this kind of thing, because it&#8217;s not real work, but a quick mind-mapping sessions can certainly help when inspiration strikes &#8211; or when it doesn&#8217;t.</p>
<p><strong>Fly in the Face of Convention</strong></p>
<p>This concept of combining seemingly unrelated fields of endeavor into a new original category or offering can be difficult for others to understand if you try and spell it out to them as a hypothetical theory. For example, my (always evolving) offering involves combining original music, humour, writing, personal development and entrepreneurship into my <a href="http://curlyslaw.com">One Thing</a>, but unless it serves a purpose (such as to illustrate my point), I don&#8217;t try to get people to understand this ambitious plan. Why? Because &#8230;</p>
<p>A) I don&#8217;t need the let-down when people don&#8217;t get it (because it sounds ridiculous to them) and tell me I&#8217;m crazy.I know I&#8217;m crazy anyway &#8211; and I don&#8217;t give a fuck! I like it!</p>
<p>B) I don&#8217;t fully understand my One New Thing yet myself! It&#8217;s an ever-evolving exploration of Self, through which I hope to help others to realize their own True Nature and/or simply to enjoy living more.</p>
<p>C) Because you don&#8217;t have to be able to explain it as a theory. It&#8217;s just not necessary!</p>
<p>Have a look around and you will find that truly original Creators are <em>Do-ers</em> and tend to either not be very self-analytical, or if they are, they keep this to themselves and <em>just get on with creating the Original Work</em>.</p>
<p>Then what happens? Other, not-so-original thinkers come along, formularize the original innovations, and reproduce lame Robo-Creations that have no soul and are in every way inferior.</p>
<p>Case in point? Jimy Hendrix. Originality oozed out of the man&#8217;s pores; he was instincively unique. Since he blew everybody&#8217;s minds his style has been rehashed to the point where it is in itself a sanitized and overwrought cliche.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t do the same old shit. Try harder! Combine your different interests and see what you can come up with! Analyse everything about yourself and find what it is that makes you <em>You</em>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not always easy, but actually being original, then working really hard at getting that &#8220;out there&#8221; is one of the major laws of success. Good luck!</p>
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		<title>What A Ghost Told Me About My Dreams</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 12:18:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Seamus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I usually steer clear of &#8220;woo-woo&#8221; superstitious stuff, but the truth of the matter is that years ago I was visited by the ghost of a recently deceased friend and he gave me some advice that I have never forgotten about pursuing your dreams.
Read the story here:
Never Gonna Be A DJ &#8211; A Ghost Story
Seamus [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I usually steer clear of &#8220;woo-woo&#8221; superstitious stuff, but the truth of the matter is that years ago I was visited by the ghost of a recently deceased friend and he gave me some advice that I have never forgotten about pursuing your dreams.</p>
<p>Read the story here:</p>
<p><a href="http://seamusanthony.com/never-gonna-be-a-dj-a-ghost-story/">Never Gonna Be A DJ &#8211; A Ghost Story</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/seamusanthony_avatar.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-103" title="seamusanthony_avatar" src="http://www.rebelzen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/seamusanthony_avatar.jpeg" alt="" width="60" height="60" /></a>Seamus Anthony</p>
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		<title>The Personal Development Dilemma Part 2: Publicly Announce Your Big Dreams or Keep Them To Yourself?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2008 05:57:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[(Here&#8217;s the first in this series)
By Seamus Anthony
Do you secretly go for gold while publicly keeping your stated intentions down-to-Earth? And does this have any effect on your outcomes?

Here&#8217;s a scenario: you&#8217;re helping out an old friend or relative that you haven&#8217;t seen for a while, somebody who (thinks) they know you backwards when out [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(Here&#8217;s <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/11/the-personal-development-dilemma-striving-vs-self-acceptance/">the first in this series</a>)</p>
<p><em>By Seamus Anthony</em></p>
<p>Do you secretly go for gold while publicly keeping your stated intentions down-to-Earth? And does this have any effect on your outcomes?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/a4gpa/497607116/"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/200/497607116_37c983b573.jpg?v=0" alt="" width="500" height="333" /></a></p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a scenario: you&#8217;re helping out an old friend or relative that you haven&#8217;t seen for a while, somebody who (thinks) they know you backwards when out comes the inevitable question:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;So &#8230; what are you up to these days then?&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about you but I have long grown tired of being honest with those closest to me about these questions. And why? Because (God love &#8216;em) most of my family and at least some of my best mates are unfortunately, mired down in the bog of life due to a lack of self-confidence. And while I don&#8217;t think they do it intentionally, they tend to try and drag everybody else down into the quicksand with them.</p>
<p>It was a bit different when I was younger, I used to let &#8216;em have it: POW! Right between the eyes &#8211; here&#8217;s what I am going to do! How do you like them apples?</p>
<p>And I used to cop some flack too, but A) I was young and, frankly, full of myself so I didn&#8217;t care what they thought and B) they were still prepared to give me some benefit of the doubt.</p>
<p>But time has passed and at my age (35) men are supposed to be &#8217;sensible&#8217; and &#8216;reliable&#8217; and basically just bring home the bacon already and otherwise shut the hell up.</p>
<p>Yeah right&#8230; Believe me if I COULD be that normal and uncomplicated I would be but I is an entirely different beast. I am unconventional, problematic and basically a creatively-inspired fuck-up so let&#8217;s just forget about all this Mr. Steadfast palaver right here and now.</p>
<p>&#8230; Forgive me; I&#8217;m rambling &#8230; My point is&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>DO YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE LETTING PEOPLE IN ON YOUR DREAMS?</strong></p>
<p>These days I find it is better to keep my public announcements on the down-low. I prefer to let people in on my outrageous plans bit-by-bit so that they don&#8217;t freak out on me. This also allows me to change my strategy as I see fit, without having to wear the Doubting Legion&#8217;s accusations of inconsistency and megalomania. (Both of which I may well be guilty of &#8230; but that doesn&#8217;t mean I need my face rubbed in it!)</p>
<p>BUT sometimes I wonder if I should be a little more forthright, like I was in my early twenties. Time has taught me restraint and to be suspicious of letting too much information out into the light. I tend to play my cards close to my chest and this approach has served me well enough &#8211; but maybe it is also good to just stand up and state what you want so that others can help you get it.</p>
<p>In fact I know that this is the case. I certainly need to be more forthright about what I want in order to allow those I mix with to assist me &#8211; but frankly my goals are so ludicrous that I am still being cautious about it.</p>
<p>What I have decided to do, and I&#8217;d be interested to know your opinion on this strategy, is to publicly announce my plans very soon, not because I expect many people to give a shit but because I think it could be a good idea (on a personal level) for me to do so</p>
<p>I mentioned doing this in <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/12/personal-development-dilemma-part-2-publicly-announce-your-big-dreams-or-keep-them-to-yourself/">Part One of this series</a> and I haven&#8217;t forgotten but to be honest, I am stalling on doing this out of fear of publicly failing. I&#8217;ve done that more than once and it&#8217;s not much fun, but still, I reckon that happened because I previously spent way too much time running off down side-alleys instead of remaining true to my deepest burning desires. I&#8217;ve come a long way to get back to the point where I have no intention of chasing anything other than my one Chief Definite Aim, my <a href="http://curlyslaw.com">One Thing</a>, and I feel it is time to share that with the world. I need to do so not out of ego but simply to free up the energy that has stagnated around my Dream and allow things to happen without the hindrances of fear and doubt.</p>
<p><strong>But What About You?</strong></p>
<p>Do you need speak up and let the world know what you REALLY want to do with your life?</p>
<p>Do you already freely and regularly enthrall the world with your big audacious plans?</p>
<p>Or do you keep your outrageous dreams stifled up inside like dirty little secret?</p>
<p>Feel free to come out of the closet in the comments section below; it might give me confidence to do the same!</p>
<p>Photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/a4gpa/497607116/">a4gpa</a></p>
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		<title>Going With The Flow : Voice Of The River</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Steve Mills
This is part two of a series about “Going With the Flow”
I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and also that you must always listen to the messages the Universe is giving you.
There is so much confusing information around these ideas in personal development writing. You get one Guru [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>By Steve Mills</em></p>
<p><em>This is part two of a series about “Going With the Flow”</em></p>
<p>I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and also that you must always listen to the messages the Universe is giving you.</p>
<p>There is so much confusing information around these ideas in personal development writing. You get one Guru that says that no matter how many times you fail, perseverence will always pay off. They would say that should chase your dreams no matter what happens along the way.</p>
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<p>This is good advice in most circumstances, especially if you follow <a href="http://www.curlyslaw.com">Curly&#8217;s Law</a> and have found your <a href="http://www.curlyslaw.com">ONE TRUE THING</a>. But it can also lead to going down the wrong river for a long time, and plunging over a metaphysical waterfall.</p>
<p>On the other hand, there are other experts which tell you to listen to what the Universe is saying. If you constantly get the message that your current course of action is not going to work out, then it is time to change course, abandon ship and start something new.</p>
<p>As an example, say you are an aspiring horror writer. You sit down five nights a week  &#8217;til past midnight, banging out story after story. They are  filled with interesting plot twits, fanatical villains and buckets of gore, and you think that they are fantastic. You send out thirty letters a week to publishers trying to get your novels out of the desk drawer, and into the bookstores. As the rejection letters mount up, you read through them carefully and see the consistant message. The market for horror books is dwindling, and so they are not taking on books by new authors.</p>
<p>You could continue to go along the same way as before, and not change direction. But then you realise you would only have your self to blame if it goes wrong. Maybe the world has had enough horror? Maybe you should change direction slightly, and still realise your goal in a slightly different way?</p>
<p>As in most things in life, the middle path wisdom shows us the way forward. True wisdom and awareness is about deciding the right course of action of the events of your life, as they are occuring in the here and now. That quiet, small voice within is the only thing worth listening too. This source of inner wisdom, called by some intuition, or higher self is the part of you that is constantly surrounded by the current of life, that best feels the flow of the river of time and fate.</p>
<p>Its the closest thing to a paddle and rudder that you have got.</p>
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		<title>Going With The Flow :  A Mighty River</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Steve Mills
This is part one of a series about &#8220;Going With the Flow&#8221;
There is a lot written on personal development blogs about the concept of “going with the flow.&#8221; I am sure most Rebel Zen readers have encountered this term many times during their internet wanderings, and that you have heard many different takes [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>By Steve Mills</em></p>
<p><em>This is part one of a series about &#8220;Going With the Flow&#8221;</em></p>
<p>There is a lot written on personal development blogs about the concept of “going with the flow.&#8221; I am sure most Rebel Zen readers have encountered this term many times during their internet wanderings, and that you have heard many different takes on what it means. Here at Rebel Zen, we aren&#8217;t ones to get too hung up on definitions. What I am more interested on is different perspectives on the one idea. So in that spirit, here is one take on the idea of &#8220;Going with the Flow&#8221;</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1235/548001473_97632adbae.jpg?v=0" alt="" width="378" height="500" /></p>
<p><strong>BIG FLOW : Life Flow</strong></p>
<p>We quite often get to a point in our lives where things get out of control. This can be a major source of anxiety and stress for a lot of people, as they feel that they are constantly fighting against the world for control of their situation in life and circumstances.</p>
<p>Others however, learn to &#8220;go with the flow.&#8221; They realise that you can NEVER have 100% control of your life circumstances, and anything could happen in the next 5 years, weeks, days or minutes which could completely change things.</p>
<p>The metaphor for this is of sitting in a canoe on a raging river. The river is your life, and the direction it flows is the combination of all of the forces and factors of your everyday existence. All is not lost to the hands of fate, because in your hand  you have a paddle. This paddle is your own goals, intentions and actions.</p>
<p>While I cannot, no matter how hard I try, change the way that the water is flowing, I can paddle myself away from obstacles, or learn to turn my canoe in just the right way to avoid capsizing when things get rough.<br />
Along the stream of life there are parts of the river that you want to visit, and parts full of dangers that you want to avoid at all cost.  I have found one of the ways to get a big, powerful paddle is by having a super clear, laser focused direction. Good Old <a href="http://www.curlyslaw.com">Curlys Law</a> in practice</p>
<p>In order to know which way to paddle, you need to have Awareness of the direction of the stream. Meditation, or taking some time out from the day to day routine is important, as it allows you to detach slightly from the flow of the River of Life,  and stand on the safe river bank.</p>
<p>From there you can look at things in perspective of the greater picture. Step beyond yourself and see how the actions you make today affect tomorrow.</p>
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		<title>Curly&#8217;s Law: How the Mega-Successful Use This Rule To Achieve Greatness and How You Can Too.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[3rd post in the three part Curly&#8217;s Law series by Seamus Anthony (here&#8217;s the first and the second)

This is a bit of a long post with two parts: 1) How the Mega Successful Use Curly&#8217;s Law To Achieve Greatness and 2) How To Discover Your True Life Purpose.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em id="pv6.1">3rd post in the three part Curly&#8217;s Law series by Seamus Anthony (here&#8217;s the <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/08/curlys-law-the-one-thing-that-is-stopping-you-from-achieving-great-success/">first</a> and the <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/08/curlys-law-how-a-fictitious-hollywood-cowboy-showed-me-the-meaning-of-life/">second</a>)<br />
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<p>This is a bit of a long post with two parts: 1) How the Mega Successful Use Curly&#8217;s Law To Achieve Greatness and 2) How To Discover Your True Life Purpose.</p>
<p><strong>How the Mega-Successful Use Curly&#8217;s Law To Achieve Greatness</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>The great over-achievers of this world don&#8217;t just use wishful thinking or hard work to get to the top, they use the &#8216;real&#8217; secret which is Curly&#8217;s Law. Curly&#8217;s Law states &#8220;Do One Thing&#8221; and is essentially the act of having laser-like focus on what you want. It is about identifying your One Thing and just going for that at the expense of other areas of interest. It&#8217;s about the power of mono-maniacal obsession, and if you want to achieve great things, then you can use this trick to get ahead in leaps and bounds.<br id="wo25" /><em><br id="wo250" />The Richest Man in the World and His Great Secret for Success.</em></p>
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<p>Long before <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/08/curlys-law-how-a-fictitious-hollywood-cowboy-showed-me-the-meaning-of-life/">Billy Crystal and his mates</a> saddled up and rode of into the the sunset, Curly&#8217;s Law was known by some as ‘Carnegie’s secret’, after Andrew Carnegie, the old-world steel tycoon and philanthropist who advised people to ‘put your eggs in one basket – and then watch the basket’. <br id="erb41" /><br id="ftwo" />Carnegie, at one time the richest man in the world, and a self-made man, was said to have a &#8216;great secret&#8217; about how to become rich. This was popularised by Napoleon Hill in his famous book &#8220;Think and Grow Rich&#8221;. The secret was not explicitly revealed in the book but was rather hinted at and the author said it was important that you figure it out yourself. People have since thrown a bunch of guesses around as to what the secret was, from the whole Law of Attraction thing to the less glamorous suggestion that you just need to get on with it and work hard. Searching around I found this quote, and as far as I am concerned it puts the stamp of authenticity on the worthiness of Curly&#8217;s Law and also puts an end to the speculation about what Carnegie&#8217;s secret was:<br id="nhp0" /></p>
<p id="nhp01">“Here is the prime condition of success, the great secret. Concentrate your energy, thought and capital exclusively upon the business in which you are engaged. Having begun in one line, resolve to fight it out on that line, to lead in it: adopt every improvement, have the best machinery, and know the most about it. This is the great secret…” Andrew Carnegie</p>
<p id="v0-10">I don&#8217;t understand the conjecture myself. the man&#8217;s exact words were &#8220;This is the great secret&#8221;. End of story.</p>
<p><strong id="cl:e">All Great Achievers Use Curly&#8217;s Law to Make it Big</strong></p>
<p><img src="http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2007/11/09/nick_cave_wideweb__470x274,0.jpg" alt="" width="470" height="274" /><strong id="cl:e"><br id="cl:e1" /><br id="cl:e2" /></strong>Whether they know it or not, I propose that all of the mega-successful use the Law of One Thing to get to the top of their chosen field.<strong id="cl:e3"><br id="cl:e4" /></strong><br id="cl:e5" />Here&#8217;s an exercise: choose one of your greatest heroes and ask yourself this &#8211; do they have what you would describe as obsessive single minded determination, laser-like focus on what it is that they do? <br id="vicm" /><br id="vicm0" />I would be willing to place a bet that the answer would have to be &#8216;Yes&#8217;. Let&#8217;s take a few of my personal heroes as examples (in no particular order &#8211; and you may wonder why these people are my heroes but all I can say is, each to their own!).<br id="b:_v" /><br id="b:_v0" /></p>
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<li id="b:_v2">Jerry Seinfeld &#8211; obsessively cared only about and worked only towards being a stand up comedian for his entire life until he became the most successful stand up in the US and went on to become the wealthiest comedian ever. <br id="r2q3" /></li>
<li id="r2q30">Steve Jobs (Apple Computers) &#8211; obsessively strove to achieve innovation in the world of computer design until he finally got it right and made Apple what it is today. (And tell me he didn&#8217;t lie up all night scheming about how to win Apple back when he got kicked out for a while!)</li>
<li id="d27q">Nick Cave &#8211; this guy has pursued a singular artistic vision relentlessly for his entire adult life and I&#8217;d be willing to bet that he&#8217;s artistically satisfied (although I doubt he&#8217;d admit it) and probably doesn&#8217;t get too stressed out about paying the mortgage off either. <br id="fjw3" /></li>
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<p>Now these are just three of my heroes, and despite the twists and turns in their journeys, all three of them have always returned like a heat-seeking missile to their One Thing. They knew what it was &#8211; and they sure as hell weren&#8217;t about to let anything trivial stand in their way. <br id="owyl" /></p>
<p>I challenge you to come up with a list of ten mega-successful people who achieved greatness by being wishy-washy, choppin&#8217; and changin&#8217;, unfocussed, undetermined, people who could never make up their minds about what it was they wanted to do. I&#8217;ve never tried to do this, but I am willing to take a punt that it wouldn&#8217;t work.<br id="ff.10" /><br id="iqrb" />Madonna: was obsessed with becoming the number one female pop star. Stephen King: wrote compulsively his whole life and only ever wanted to be a novelist. Bob Hawke: gave up alcohol so it wouldn&#8217;t get in the way of becoming Prime Minister of Australia. Abraham Lincoln, lost something like 8 elections before he went on to be <a href="http://www.rogerknapp.com/inspire/lincoln.htm">President</a> of the United States. The list goes on&#8230;<br id="ff.11" /></p>
<p><strong id="mxhg0">How To Discover Your True Life Purpose</strong><br id="mxhg1" /><br id="owyl0" />But I can hear some of you already thinking &#8220;But I don&#8217;t KNOW what my One Thing is! That&#8217;s the whole problem!&#8221; and I don&#8217;t know either. But I have been through all of this and have some suggestions that may help you.<br id="h6fc" /><br id="h6fc0" />First get yourself into a contemplative, relaxed frame of mind. Have a bath, turn the lights down low and stare at the fire or go for a walk in the woods by yourself. If you know how to meditate, do some before you start this process.<br id="owyl1" /><br id="ulxw" />There are a lot of techniques out there for discovering your true life purpose, but here is the one I used. It is deceptively simple but the key is not to move on to the next question until you have answered the one before it to your full satisfaction.<br id="ulxw0" /><strong><br id="ulxw1" /></strong></p>
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<li id="ulxw3"><strong>What do I want to be?</strong></li>
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<p>A very simple, short and open question. If you are in a relaxed, contemplative mood, the answer may come to you directly. Just like that. Your own voice in your head may just serve up the answer like a piece of pie on a plate.<br id="r92u0" /><br id="r92u1" />Or it may not come for a while. If you don&#8217;t manage to hear your True Self straight away then it is up to you to simply wait. Wait for the answer. Wait for a number of days in need be but be sure to find quite time to contemplate this answer. Or talk to somebody you can be open with as this often helps you to unlock the inner workings of your own mind. Tarot cards or other oracles are also great for this kind of thing. They don&#8217;t <em>tell</em> you the answer they help your mind expand, provide the catalyst for the expansion of your consciousness. <br id="dmo4" /><br id="dmo40" />When the answer comes you will know. <br id="lyzk" /><br id="lyzk0" />And here&#8217;s a hint. It won&#8217;t be about your career. By asking yourself what you want to be, the only honest answer lies much much deeper than that. We are talking about the true meaning behind your life, behind all of our lives. <br id="dmo41" /><br id="dmo42" />I have to admit, my process was backed up by years of spiritual and personal development &#8211; reading, meditating and inner work &#8211; so if you&#8217;ve never gone this deep before, give it some time. Who knows, it could take years for the answer to come.<br id="zokk" /><br id="zokk0" />But listen very carefully to your inner voice when you first ask the question because it will without a doubt answer you straight away, without a doubt, but the question is whether you can be quiet enough inside your mind to hear what your true-self wants.<br id="cugt" /><br id="cugt0" />Once you know what you want to be, then ask&#8230;<br id="r92u2" /><br id="r92u3" /><strong> 2. “Why do I want to be what I want to be? Why have I chosen this as my main sub-conscious motivator?”</strong><br id="ubp:" /><br id="ubp:0" />Here is where you will get into your own psyche and discover why you are who are why you behave like you do and why you want to be the person you want to be. Again, make sure you are quiet inside before you ask and then listen very carefully to the answer that will come directly from your True Self. <br id="lyzk1" /><br id="lyzk2" />When you listen to the quiet voice of your True Self, you will not only know WHAT you want to be but WHY and this will be a great liberation to you.<br id="lyzk3" /><br id="lyzk4" />If you listen softly enough, you just might be lucky enough to hear your own voice identify your true purpose in life. Good luck!<br id="lyzk5" /><br id="lyzk6" />And remember what Curly the Cowboy said:</p>
<p>&#8220;Do One Thing &#8230; you stick to that and the rest don&#8217;t mean shit&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Curly&#8217;s Law: How a Fictitious Hollywood Cowboy Showed Me the Meaning of Life</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Part Two of a Three Part Series (here&#8217;s the first)

By Seamus Anthony  One line from the cheesy 1991 movie City Slickers (yes, the one starring Billy Crystal) helped me to achieved absolute and total spiritual enlightenment in a blinding flash of inspiration.    And no, I am not kidding you. Well, actually [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Part Two of a Three Part Series (here&#8217;s <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/08/curlys-law-the-one-thing-that-is-stopping-you-from-achieving-great-success/">the first</a>)<br />
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<p><strong>By Seamus Anthony</strong><em></em><br id="qr85" /> <br id="qr850" /> One line from the cheesy 1991 movie <em id="b0g2">City Slickers</em> (yes, the one starring Billy Crystal) helped me to achieved absolute and total spiritual enlightenment in a blinding flash of inspiration.  <br id="f.if" /> <br id="f.if0" /> And no, I am not kidding you.<br id="f.if2" /> Well, actually &#8230; maybe just a little bit <img src='http://www.rebelzen.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> <br id="f.if3" /> <br id="f.if4" /> But the point is I did get something amazing out of that film and this is a thing that I later came to see being referred to as &#8220;<a href="http://www.codinghorror.com/blog/archives/000805.html">Curly&#8217;s Law</a>&#8220;. <br id="jleo" /></p>
<p>Curly&#8217;s law states simply this: Do One Thing</p>
<p><em></em><em></em><br id="pohe" /> <img src="http://cache.daylife.com/imageserve/08Bf6Wv5ay6rx/340x.jpg" alt="" width="340" height="512" /></p>
<p>Curly was the tough old cowboy character played by the late Jack Palance. Here&#8217;s the scene from the movie where Curly espouses his life philosophy to Mitch, Billy Crystal’s character:<br id="mw4v" /></p>
<p id="e-og">Curly: Do you know what the secret of life is?</p>
<p id="e-og0">Curly: This. [holds up one finger]</p>
<p id="e-og1">Mitch: Your finger?</p>
<p id="e-og2">Curly: One thing. Just one thing. You stick to that and the rest don’t mean shit.</p>
<p id="e-og3">Mitch: But what is the “one thing?”</p>
<p id="e-og4">Curly: [smiles] That’s what you have to find out.</p>
<p>Now that little nugget of wisdom is so simple, that I dare say you&#8217;ve watched that movie more than once and never really gave that statement much thought at all. But I am telling you now that &#8211; unconventional source that it may come from &#8211; there is enough power in that little statement to change the world for ever, and to make the difference between you achieving your dreams or not. <br id="som4" /> <br id="som40" /> The reason it blew my puny little mind so hard is because for years I had been struggling with the fact that I never seemed to be getting any real lasting results, either in terms of income or of artistic satisfaction, when I was always running around busy on a number of awesome projects. If I had so many great projects on the go, then why wasn&#8217;t i getting he pay off?<br id="r9v5" /> <br id="r9v50" /> Well, when I watched that old cowboy hold up his finger I suddenly got it &#8211; I had a Zen-like Satori moment. Satori is a blinding flash of insight that brings instant enlightenment. I suddenly saw that my problem was that I wasn&#8217;t ever truly focusing with the kind of laser like intensity that I should have on just One Thing. I needed to discover what my One True Thing was and just do that.<br id="wcnm" /> <br id="wcnm0" /> But this wasn&#8217;t an easy thing to do. I am a musician who loves writing who loves entrepreneurship who loves personal development and spirituality &#8211; that&#8217;s four things! Which was I going to do? I tried to make myself just choose one but I couldn&#8217;t because this just seemed forced and I knew I would always be wishing I could write something if I just chose music or that I could start a cool business if I was only writing or whatever. So I decided to chill out and get to the bottom of the problem.<br id="lbly" /> <br id="lbly0" /> To cut a long story short I eventually came to the realisation that beneath my different interests lay a common factor &#8211; everything that I loved doing (career wise) revolves around <em>media</em>. If I am doing a music gig, well that&#8217;s about promoting my recorded work and it also leads to people being interested in buying my writing. And my writing is most often about personal development. And my personal development entrepreneurial ideas tend to be about selling media products designed to enrich people&#8217;s lives. So essentially my One Career Thing is media and the different aspects of that all complement the single main career purpose, so whatever I am doing, whether it be writing, making music, or working on my personal development business interests, I am always working away at my Career One Thing which is Media.<br id="cvb5" /> <br id="cvb50" /><strong> But What About The Meaning of Life?</strong><br id="i062" /> <br id="i0620" /> Oh yeah, that.</p>
<p>Well, above and beyond the career question, I felt the need to go deeper and find out what my One Thing for my whole life is. My Definite Major Purpose as Napoleon Hill calls it in <em>Think and Grow Rich</em>, and as it is more commonly known, my True Life Purpose.<br id="y4-1" /> <br id="y4-10" /> Whoa &#8230; a heavy question. In City Slickers, it is basically implied that Billy&#8217;s Crtsytal&#8217;s One Thing is his family, but to me that seems a bit one dimensional. Family is certainly one of the most important aspects of life to me but yet I still felt that there was something deeper, or higher, that underpinned everything like Family, Career, etc.</p>
<p>I had to go through a process to find this out (the complexity of which is beyond the scope of this article) but I did come to a realisation of my true Life Purpose, One Thing, or Major Definite Purpose.<br id="h-ox" /> <br id="h-ox0" /> I don&#8217;t believe it helps me to go telling every person in the world what this is, because it would read trite compared to the intensity of the the experience of discovering this One Thing and the power that keeping my focus on this thing brings into my life. But I am here to tell you today that if you can go back and discover what your One Thing is, well you will never look back and a lot of your problems and frustrations and confusion will dissapear into thin air once and for all.<br id="on94" /> <br id="on940" /> So by now you may be thinking &#8220;Gee how did we get from a cowboy whose One Thing was simply &#8216;bein&#8217; a cowboy&#8217; to deep and meaningful shit like the above? And where&#8217;s the one-thingness gone anyway? You&#8217;ve been talking about all kinds of things&#8230;&#8221; <br id="c5-v" /> <br id="c5-v0" /> Well, to clarify: What I am saying is that when you discover what your overall One Thing is in your life, you will then find it easier to identify your lesser One Things, or if you like, your Sub-Things. For example, underneath your Major One Thing might come four headings &#8220;career&#8221; &#8220;family&#8221; health&#8221; and &#8220;society&#8221; (you might have more headings, or different ones, it&#8217;s just an example). And each of those could be broken down into smaller and smaller subsections, like in a family tree or the random company employee-structure diagram below that I grabbed off the &#8216;tubes.<br id="il6z" /></p>
<p><img src="http://www.npowerjobs.com/images/orgchart3.gif" alt="" width="570" height="220" /></p>
<p><br id="il6z2" /> And you can keep breaking these things down until you get to the level of your daily To Do List. And here&#8217;s where the power of Curly&#8217;s Law really kicks in on a couple of levels.</p>
<p>Firstly, you will know that everything that is on your To Do List is congruous with your One Major Thing, and that if it&#8217;s not, then you should just shaft that thing out of your life.</p>
<p>Secondly, when you are doing anything, JUST DO THAT ONE THING. Here&#8217;s where all of the Zen stuff you&#8217;ve ever read comes in. Zen masters say that true enlightenment comes from Present Moment Awareness which means only putting your focus on whatever is happening in this moment right now. That&#8217;s what the Zen dudes are on about when they are doing archery or flower arranging or of course meditating, they are just focussing on the thing that they are experiencing at this precise moment now.<br id="r83g" /> <br id="r83g0" /> And that&#8217;s how they find such contentment and fulfimment and inner peace. Think about it, when you are doing something that you enjoy so much that you are absorbed in the &#8216;flow&#8217; of what you are doing to the exclusion of everything else that is there to distract you should you allow, don&#8217;t you feel at peace? Maybe you love knitting, and when you knit you just count and twiddle your needles and stare at the wall and become very peaceful because you are just knitting, you are not knitting while checking your emails, while wondering what you are going to have for dinner while talking to your husband, you are just knitting and that is why you are at peace.<br id="o5wu" /> <br id="o5wu0" /> Simplicity brings peace because it eliminates tension. Complexity causes tension.<br id="ikkc" /> <br id="ikkc0" /><strong> Just Do One Thing.</strong><br id="ikkc1" /> <br id="ikkc2" /> The cowboy said it, the multi-millionaire said, and I am saying it.<br id="ikkc3" /> <br id="ikkc4" /> Just Do One Thing and you will experience greater success and inner peace in your life than ever before. <br id="tot0" /> <em><br id="tot00" />&#8220;Wait A Minute? What multi-millionaire?&#8221;</em><br id="wcnm1" /> <br id="wcnm2" /> I didn&#8217;t I mention him yet? Well you will have to wait until the <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/08/curlys-law-how-the-mega-successful-use-this-rule-to-achieve-greatness-and-how-you-can-too/">next post in the series</a> about Curly&#8217;s Law, where I show you examples of mega-successful dudes and how they used mono-maniacal obsession to get to the top of their chosen fields.<br id="tiqu" /></p>
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		<title>Curly&#8217;s Law: The One Thing That Is Stopping You From Achieving Great Success</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Seamus Anthony
Part One in a Series of Three
Do you struggle to achieve mental clarity in a world of busyness, complexity and clutter? Do you find yourself chasing your tail, always busy but never seeming to get around to doing the things that are most important to you, like discovering your True Life Purpose, achieving [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By Seamus Anthony</p>
<p><em id="qv0c1">Part One in a Series of Three</em><br id="s-nr0" /></p>
<p>Do you struggle to achieve mental clarity in a world of busyness, complexity and clutter? Do you find yourself chasing your tail, always busy but never seeming to get around to doing the things that are most important to you, like discovering your True Life Purpose, achieving your dreams, or devoting the time and energy to your family that you know deserve? <br id="id0m" /><br id="id0m0" />Wouldn&#8217;t you love to know what the secret is that the great achievers of our age use to move mountains? What it is that your heroes know that keeps them at the top, the thing you are missing, the thing that holds you back? How do they manage to churn out such amazing work, and rack up win after win while you chase your tail and struggle to pay the bills? <br id="o.33" /></p>
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<p><br id="o.330" />Well, despite the hype of recent times, the &#8217;secret&#8217; that these people have is NOT simply magically focussing on the end results that they desire. It is NOT simply a case of &#8216;ask, believe, receive&#8217; or else we&#8217;d all be running around being fabulously rich and have all the time in the world to do whatever the hell we like (and look good doing it). Creative visualisation and the Law of Attraction are part of the overall process for success, no doubt about it, but there is another closely linked secret that gets overlooked. <br id="rfdd" /><br id="rfdd0" />And no, it&#8217;s not &#8216;hard work&#8217;. That&#8217;s an obvious, a given. Of COURSE you have to work hard &#8211; and don&#8217;t believe anyone who tells you otherwise. (That doesn&#8217;t mean that some things won&#8217;t come easy to you, they can and will if you set yourself up to attract that, but my point is you&#8217;d be a gormless ninny to sit around and expect everything handed to you on a silver platter.)<br id="ftzy" /><br id="ftzy0" />No, the OTHER secret is called Curly&#8217;s Law, and Curly&#8217;s Law states simply this:<br id="noso" /><br id="noso0" />&#8220;Do One Thing&#8221;. <br id="i.-j" /><br id="foio" />Curly&#8217;s Law is the concept of &#8220;One Thing&#8221;, it is a concept that can help you identify your life&#8217;s purpose and make all of your dreams come true. It is the power of Obsessive Mono-Maniacal focus. It is also one of the great secrets of spiritual enlightenment. It means that you focus on one thing at any one time, with laser-like intensity, until the job is done. It works on a macro and a micro level to move mountains or just clean up all those little molehills that keep getting in your way. You can use this concept to do anything and as I will show, the greatest characters in history have used Curly&#8217;s Law to achieve some of the greatest things ever in human history. <br id="l.-b" /><br id="l.-b0" />And the funny thing is: Curly&#8217;s Law, in all it&#8217;s glorious Zen greatness, was invented by a fictitious character. A Hollywood cowboy in fact! <br id="p8a3" /><br id="p8a30" />Now if that ain&#8217;t Rebel Zen in action, I don&#8217;t know what is! <br id="p8a31" /><br id="p8a32" />I will explain further in <a href="http://www.rebelzen.com/2008/08/curlys-law-how-a-fictitious-hollywood-cowboy-showed-me-the-meaning-of-life/">tomorrow&#8217;s post</a><br id="p8a33" /><br id="p8a34" /><strong></strong></p>
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